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  • Top Ten Concerns about Children and Technology

    Top Ten Concerns about Children and Technology

    Top 10 Parent and Teacher Concerns about Children and TechnologyOne of my favorite parts of Raising Digital Natives is presenting to parent groups, teachers and administrators. Frequently, parents and teachers share their experiences with me, so I learn as much as I teach. Being exposed to the concerns parents and teachers have about kids in the digital age is extremely informative and valuable to shaping the services I can offer at Raising Digital Natives.

    For educators, this list offers a helpful orientation to parent concerns that you may wish to address directly in your parent engagement communication. I’ve collected some of these common concerns from some recent appearances, with the help of my super-smart new intern, Polina Senderova, a student at the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University here in Chicago.

    See if you identify with any of these concerns:

    1. How much “screen time” is too much?
      These days, it seems children never get a break from technology. Whether at school or at home, for work or for play, there’s always a screen in the room. But at what point do the harms of digital devices outweigh their benefits? When is it time to disconnect?
    2. How much video game time is too much?
      Kids love their video games. If left alone, many kids would have no problem at all spending an entire day building and exploring on Minecraft. While this type of gaming does have its benefits, most adults will agree that a day-long gaming marathon is excessive. At what point should you pull the plug on playtime?
    3. Are social skills at risk?
      Sometimes, kids will choose playing with a computer over playing with their friends. While gaming can be social, is this damaging to their socialization? Does excessive screen time cause kids to miss out on learning how to deal with important social scenarios? How harmful is the lack of real, face-to-face interaction to their social development?
    4. How do you ensure safety on the Internet?
      It’s no secret that the Internet is chock-full of content that is not appropriate for children. Younger children may be unaware that this type of content—as well as more serious online dangers—exist, they also may not know how to avoid them. How do you protect your children and stay Web-safe without infringing on their browsing privacy?
    5. Is traditional learning at risk?
      When tablets replace notebooks in the classroom, opportunities for digital learning are arguably limitless. However, perhaps children do benefit from old-school, pen-and-paper techniques. By eliminating the traditional methods of teaching, are their developmental learning tools suffering in some way?
    6. How can a child focus with so many distractions?
      “But I need my computer to do homework!” Children can’t be good students without finishing their work, often on computers and/or tablets. But computers, tablets, and other devices are often multi-purpose. That means that they also have games and other opportunities to connect with friends. When tempted by things more fun than homework, how is it possible to let kids use technology but still keep them focused?
    7. Can kids still find fun without technology?
      Are the days of riding bikes and climbing trees entirely behind us? When video games and computers offer instant and easy distractions, what happens to the “traditional” ways that kids play? Can kids still independently find amusement, and can we trust them to find creative and productive ways to stay entertained?
    8. What should parents of different age groups expect?
      While many of these questions persist as kids grow, oftentimes, new ones arise. Every age group uses and understands technology in different ways. What particular issues should parents of a six-year-old be concerned about, and how do they differ from those of a twelve-year-old?
    9. Does social media create “FOMO?”
      A major cause of social stress for children and teenagers is the Fear Of Missing Out, or FOMO. Will the sad feeling of not getting invited to the birthday party be made worse by scrolling through the group selfies from the party on Instagram. How do we avoid this, and how do we deal with it if it arises?
    10. Is the parent/teacher connection at risk?
      Rest in Peace, Red Pen. With tablets replacing traditional homework methods, parent involvement almost inevitably decreases. This is a surprise to some parents—something they weren’t expecting. When it’s harder to see teacher feedback on homework, how can parents bridge that gap with educators in order to continue to help their kids in the same way?

    Do you share some of these concerns? Do you have other concerns about children and technology that I haven’t addressed here? Let me hear from you! I’ll be sharing solutions and strategies for each of these concerns on my blog and in the book that I’m currently writing. For some answers right now, sign up on my email list to get my eBook: A Dozen Tips to Help Your Family Thrive in the Digital Age. That way, you can be in touch and participate in the conversation. You can sign up for my newsletter here.

    Thank you, and I look forward to hearing from you!